Two thoughts here:
1) The current version is "very" sensitive about swapping items and armor that have different skins. My suggestion is to "fully" remove (put in inventory)the current item, and then replace it with the new item. If you just drop it on top of the current item, skins completely disappear or they default to the base (non-magical) skin.
2) Dwarven plate "will" appear on a woman, "not" on men (for me).
Hope this helps!